1 00:00:04,249 --> 00:00:02,330 is that most people 2 00:00:06,410 --> 00:00:04,259 will have some incredible 3 00:00:08,690 --> 00:00:06,420 encounter like this whether it's 4 00:00:10,190 --> 00:00:08,700 a military encounter or a personal 5 00:00:11,209 --> 00:00:10,200 encounter with what appears to be a 6 00:00:12,589 --> 00:00:11,219 being 7 00:00:13,730 --> 00:00:12,599 and then what happens they don't talk 8 00:00:15,049 --> 00:00:13,740 about it 9 00:00:17,090 --> 00:00:15,059 like ever 10 00:00:19,130 --> 00:00:17,100 or hardly ever they don't even tell 11 00:00:22,070 --> 00:00:19,140 family members who do you really tell 12 00:00:23,929 --> 00:00:22,080 when you have some incredible experience 13 00:00:26,090 --> 00:00:23,939 like this 14 00:00:27,650 --> 00:00:26,100 um often they tell no one and I find 15 00:00:30,349 --> 00:00:27,660 that actually disturbing I mean this is 16 00:00:33,049 --> 00:00:30,359 sometimes the most amazing dramatic and 17 00:00:34,130 --> 00:00:33,059 sometimes traumatic event in someone's 18 00:00:38,030 --> 00:00:34,140 life 19 00:00:39,590 --> 00:00:38,040 and and yet because of social norms or 20 00:00:42,709 --> 00:00:39,600 and social pressures 21 00:00:44,510 --> 00:00:42,719 uh they don't feel like they can talk 22 00:00:46,310 --> 00:00:44,520 about this openly and to me that's 23 00:00:47,930 --> 00:00:46,320 that's a sign of a problem 24 00:00:49,130 --> 00:00:47,940 in our society 25 00:00:50,569 --> 00:00:49,140 it seems to me that when there's 26 00:00:51,470 --> 00:00:50,579 something important that's going on we 27 00:00:54,950 --> 00:00:51,480 should be 28 00:00:57,590 --> 00:00:54,960 able to talk about it publicly 29 00:00:59,510 --> 00:00:57,600 but I think the reason that there's this